Breakups can be one of the most painful things a person will ever experience. I, for one, can barely handle it. I seethe, I write insane emails, I cry for days. Eventually, I snap out of it, but wow. It's certainly an arduous emotional journey. Though breakups destroy me, I have experienced worse. The dissolution of a friendship has proven to be much more difficult to heal from than a partner breakup. After my best friend Emily snapped and turned on me (alcoholism messes with a person's brain)…