What is a softboi ? If you've ever received a flirty unsolicited message from someone who speaks in platitudes, drops backhanded compliments that simultaneously flatter and insult, or talks at length about how "different" they are, then you likely already know. Thanks to @beam_me_up_softboi 's archive of weird DMs from pick-up artists, sapiosexuals, and self-proclaimed ' nice guys ,' we've amassed a very cringe compilation of receipts that prove how low softbois can go.

Stop telling the world our secrets!

Anybody with at a v*gina is like, “why haven't I thought of this yet??"

She went from selling a vagina scented candle to fighting for lower income families…

Damn, Twitter

Men address everything from anatomy to relationships

Dawww

Breaking: Another rich person has made an absolute fool of themselves by telling people they need to work harder. And we doubt anyone is surprised to hear that this time it's Kim Kardashian. “I have the best advice for women in business,” Kim Kardashian says. “Get your f--king ass up and work. It seems like nobody wants to work these days.” https://t.co/HuddEEXmoM pic.twitter.com/KJCIlaVX3S — Variety (@Variety) March 9, 2022 The 41 year old billionaire is under fire on Twitter for a tone deaf c…

*Smiles and nods*

Major ick all round

As a woman, it can feel like I am not supposed to scrutinize the behavior of other women. Some people feel like calling each other out isn't feminist - that we should reserve our judgments instead of taking others down a peg. But there's some behavior that is so universally gross that I can't be quiet - and you could argue that it's more misogynistic than critiquing other women. I'm talking about people who flaunt that “not like other girls” attitude. The “I'm not like other girls” schtick was…

How??

Take no crap

Good to know.

True allyship.

Just back away slowly