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This selection of tweets, memes, and pics is for anyone who is having a bad day or needs a little pick-me-up. Sometimes when you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel you need a little bit of warmth and perspective.

Neither dating nor being in a relationship is always a walk in the park. While hopefully a partnership provides you with intimacy, friendship, and (most importantly) attention - there are almost always little squabbles or partner-specific tics that might irk you. We think it's important to laugh about that kind of stuff instead of dwell on it, and based on this Twitter meme from the last week, other people seem to agree. 

The tweets follow a format that states "A relationship is 50/50," which is then followed by a an astute dating observation or a sarcastic joke. While some dudes (and ladies) are using the format to talk up their dating styles, most people are using the meme to poke fun at our slightly toxic tendencies. And we're totally here for it.

We know some of y'all spend your days sending each other cute memes, but we have to at least pretend to be disgruntled about it. One of the indisputable issues with couples today is a lack of appreciation on one or both sides for great memes. No matter how sappy or savage, memes should be an integral part of any healthy relationship. At least one joint session a week of meme scrolling is recommended to maximize intimacy and your connection as a couple. 

The reality of relationships can sometimes be expertly summed up in meme form, and these sexual relationship memes are very much aware of how difficult a relationship can be. Or, If you want to see how it really is like out there, you won't be disappointed with these cutesy relationship memes, or these visceral real-life relationship memes, maybe those will give you feelings.

This year (more than ever) it feels like we're struggling to find a smidgen of good news in a fiery garbage pit of tragedy. Every once in a while we get lucky, and today is one of those days. Over a year ago, Tumblr user gallusrostromegalus shared an incredibly wholesome (and incomplete) list of animals their grandfather brought home to their grandma during their 67 year marriage. The list is comprehensive, funny, and reminds us that kindness does exist in the world. 

It's also not the first time that gallustromegalus has gone viral for animal-related content. The hilarious antics of their parents dog, Arwen, caught the attention of many media outlets such as Buzzfeed. They're currently working on a book of family lore, but if you enjoyed this thread (and maybe the one about Arwen), consider donating to their Patreon. You'll receive more heartwarming content, and will be supporting a disabled writer who depends on their creativity to pay the bills.  

It's easy to laugh at pretty much anything on TikTok, especially anything involving relationships. But thanks to this garbage fire of a year, we're a little more accepting of cringe when it somehow manages to give us hope. TikTok user @liltransboykai shared a video that fits the bill yesterday - a clip of his coworker Willow proposing to his partner Akira. The whole thing goes down at work, which for these three happens to be a McDonald's. The video eventually made its way to Twitter, where users both mocked and praised it with a heavy dose of predictable sass. Though we enjoyed the laugh, we wish these two a happy future. 

As more people feel comfortable coming out as trans, there seems to be more discussion regarding the proper way to handle a person's transition. Are you re-meeting? Is it awkward to ask for a new name? Should it be acknowledged at all? Twitter user and musician Mel Stone managed to tackle this issue by sharing a very sweet story about being accepted by her Indian takeout guy. The story prompted other people to share their own heartwarming transition acceptance stories, and it's brought up a whole lot of happy-cry feels on this beautiful Monday. We've included some of our favorite tidbits from the thread, but you can take in more of the wholesomeness right here.

Married life isn't always what it's cracked up to be. While it's great to have the undying love and support of your spouse, there are also instances of grating annoyances and rage-inducing behaviors.  These memes really say it all.

We hear a lot about toxic masculinity these days. But what about the dudes who consistently life people up and set a good example for the rest of the "male" world? We think they deserve some respect. These posts and photos highlight decidedly positive behavior from men - men who are a breath of fresh air in a society that all too often demands stocism and macho behavior. Enjoy the wholesomeness.

Everywhere you look right now there's talk of what people are calling "unprecedented times." Between the war against Covid-19 and the fight against racism, humanity is faced with some serious and sobering challenges. But during difficult times it's important to take care of yourself and step away from the constant flood of pretty horrifying news. We're here to help you do that in the nicest way we know how: with a whole lot of happy memes, comics, and messages that may succeed in bringing a smile to your face.

Twitter is a lot of things: a hub for political rants and raves, a sounding board for comedians, and a great way to keep up with current events and gossip. And as Twitter user @sixthformpoet displays in this classic thread, it's also a fabulous medium for storytellers who deserve their voices to be heard. This three part tale has it all: sadness, serendipitous romance, humor, and even some serious life lessons. And we're willing to bet you'll want more when you reach the end.

Love and dating may not be all romance and roses, but it's definitely nice to have someone special in your life - especially during the crazy times we're experiencing right now. These relatable relationship memes for the committed cover all the bases: sappiness, the occasional neediness, and wholesome shout outs to people who are unafraid to express their feelings. And if you're in a mood for a laugh have a look at these funny relationship memes that even single people might relate to.

Want to feel like absolute shit about love in a digital world? Well, cartoonist Tommy Siegel has some cartoons for you! He's taken Necco's (RIP) classic conversation hearts and put a seriously dark spin on the Valentine's confection. Instead of cutesy messages, he uses the hearts as to convey some seriously depression truths about dating, relationships, and marriage. And somehow, we can't get enough of his dark work. If you like what you see here, give the dude a follow on Instagram. He deserves it. 

While we're happy for all anyone who has had a "successful" friends with benefits situation, but in our experience someone almost always gets hurt. The current climate is an especially weird time for "no-strings attached" lovers. While some people are going months without seeing their sexual partners, others have instead decided to shack up for quarantine. This r/relationships post  (since deleted) deals with the latter. After a couple years  of being sexually involved, and finally after quarantining with her, this guy has started to catch feelings. The confused dude took to Reddit to express his conflicted feelings, and after the post was shared on Twitter, many users decided to share their two cents. While we think it is rotten to string someone along, it's important to remember these people are in their early twenties. It's normal for a 21 year old to be somewhat immature in love. We're just glad he seems to be wising up emotionally. 

Every now and then we witness something or hear a story that crushes our pessimism and makes us believe that true love is real. Rosey Blair was on a flight home with her partner when she bore witness to one of these exact situations. And lucky for everyone at home, she live-tweeted the entire, nauseatingly cute experiences. 

We know goth sh*t is pretty en vogue right now, what with everyone getting witchy and wearing harnesses and chokers. This fad has seeped into the meme world, so there's no shortage of funny tidbits boasting dark humor and a whole lot of black clothing. These memes might help you get your fix of darkness without having to face the teenage hordes at Hot Topic. 

Communication is truly the most important part of a relationship. The way you speak to your partner will certainly make or break a partnership. The texts, while all pretty hilarious, give you a little bit of both sides of the spectrum. These texts exist to remind you of what to say and what you should never, EVER, ever say. If you like these textual tidbits, give @weshouldbreakup a follow on Instagram. Their account is perfect.