It feels like more and more people who are well into adulthood are realizing that ADHD might be the real reason they spent years of struggling to focus, maintain hobbies, or even succeed at having relationships. Hell, it took 31 years for me to get diagnosed because I have ADHD and depression . Newsflash: ADHD isn't just being hyperactive or daydreaming and getting distracted. It's a bit more complex than that. The truth is that everyone gets sidetracked occasionally, especially with how brutal…